This
past week, I had been trying to get ahold of Mehran in order to have our fifth
conversation all week; however, he never got back to me. I was growing
concerned because he was ignoring all of the text messages I sent him, which
was very unusual for Mehran. Just as I was about to give up and send a search
party to look for him, he returned one of my text messages, explaining that he
had been sick all week. It took us awhile, but we were finally able to schedule
a time that worked with both of our busy lives.
I
began our conversation by wishing Mehran a happy birthday, which caused Mehran
looked completely surprised. He then asked me how I knew that his birthday was
last week. I imagine the thought that crossed his mind was something along the
lines of “My conversation partner is so creepy, and she must stalk me in her
free time.” This thought made me laugh, but I simply reminded him that he had
told me during our last conversation. Mehran looked relieved to know that I was
not insane after all.
However,
one of the most interesting parts of our conversations was when Mehran asked me
why we always met in 1873, and why I never changed up our meeting places. I
initially joked with Mehran by saying it was just because I was a boring
conversation partner. He laughed at this, but I could tell he wanted an actual
answer. Therefore, I then explained to him that I just get used to routines;
for example, I inevitably sit in the same spot every single day even when I can
chose any spot in the room. I then promised Mehran that I would chose a more
interesting place to meet next week.
Mehran
and my conversations generally revolve around light conversation topics like
the weather or holidays. However, we also always manage to talk about something
interesting during each of our conversations. This is because Mehran offers a
new perspective on almost every topic and makes me think about things in a
different way. Therefore, I always look forward to our meetings.
I don't know why but I found Mehran asking to meet in a different place so funny. I guess its cause I've never thought to ask my partner if she wants to change locations and its kind of funny and that he had thought about moving locations.
ReplyDeleteAlso I feel the same when I say things to my partner about her life because she sometimes forgets that she told me that, but she does the same to me too so it's not super awkward