Mehran and I
decided to meet in the library entrance and walk over to the McCalisters to get
some food. I had been waiting for him for ten minutes when I got a text message
that said here, and I looked around for him in the lobby of the library. I then
decided to go outside and look for him, and there he was. I could tell he was a
little bit annoyed because the first words he said were, “I have been waiting
for ten minutes.” I quickly apologized and told him that I had been waiting
inside the library lobby because I thought that is what he meant by the
entrance. Miscommunications like this are usually funny, but I could not help
but to feel bad.
We then went to
McCalisters because I was so hungry, and I could not help but to bring up
Thanksgiving. I asked Mehran if he had any plans for the break, and he said
that he was just going to stay here and catch up on his sleep and his work. I
could tell as he was saying this that he was a little bit sad to not be going
anywhere during the break, which is completely understandable since he has not
seen his family in years. I would have invited him to have Thanksgiving with my
family; however, I couldn’t since I was going to Colorado during the break.
Since I could tell
the Thanksgiving topic upset Mehran, I quickly decided to ask him about his
last weekend. He instantly looked happier as he described his hunting trip to
Oklahoma. I then asked where in Oklahoma, and he said that he wasn’t really
sure if it in Oklahoma; after all, it could have still been Texas because they
look the look the same. Mehran also mentioned that he was a good hunter and he
tried to remember the name of the bird that he hunted. I am not an experienced
hunter at all, so I guessed every bird that I could think of. This included
pigeons and quails, but I eventually got it right when I guessed ducks. I was so
excited, and we both laughed. Mehran then said could use one of the ducks he
hunted in place of a Thanksgiving turkey.
I hate miscommunications like that! They can be really frustrating, but as long as everyone understands that it was no one's fault, it usually works out fine. I'm sorry about that bringing up Thanksgiving did not work out. When my partner and I spoke about Thanksgiving, he said, "I don't have any American friends except for you. So, there is no one to take me to their house for Thanksgiving." Yes, he practically invited himself, which was awkward and led to me quickly changing the subject.
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